9 march

sometimes yes it is appropriate to apologize and not for some effect or what you hope someone will say in response like they will say oh no you were right to do that or say that or whatever else makes sense in that situation as if you could do no wrong but that's not what they would say really anyway in most cases although they might but more likely something like it's okay or it's not your fault or i know you didn't mean to or mean it like that but would it be better if they said what they really felt like i can't believe you and why don't you just get over yourself and all those kinds of low things that rise up when you feel the boiling about to overflow but instead you curtsey or flutter your fingers and say no worries as if the whole thing is even too trivial for a sneeze as absolutely nobody at all would say